Are you claiming that it is false that sexism (independently from whether it exist or not) is laughed into oblivion, or are you simply saying is does not exist?

Are you claiming that it is false that sexism (independently from whether it exist or not) is laughed into oblivion, or are you simply saying is does not exist? this would warrant a comment on how the grandparent experience of being assumed a mediocre caretaker is invalid then.