This is all relative and very subjective from one person to the next. One person looking like they don't care, is probably somebody who found out that's the be

This is all relative and very subjective from one person to the next. One person looking like they don't care, is probably somebody who found out that's the best way to act when you truly do care! In a nutshell, nobody can possibly know whether another co-worker truly cares, even if they told their fellow associate they don't. Do you know this person's health situation, their family, their home life? In my opinion, it's always juniors to low level seniors with around 5 years experience or less who run around with their heads cut off expecting everybody else to do the same. If not, they must not care. I think we need to purge these types from any status updates, planning and the like... they clearly just need more time in the trenches taking grenades like the rest of us... eventually they won't care about a few bullets flying around.