> You had to take losing. If you threw a tantrum, then quickly you weren't invited to play again Helicopter parenting and "controlling" schooling are terrible

> You had to take losing. If you threw a tantrum, then quickly you weren't invited to play again Helicopter parenting and "controlling" schooling are terrible but don't paint a rosy vision of the past. We can do much better. > the "coolest" kids were, in retrospect, the most emotionally mature ones citation desperately needed.