I disagree. ;) In my dozen or so years of experience with Theo, we've disagreed and argued many times and he's always been reasonable. For the record, if I had

I disagree. ;) In my dozen or so years of experience with Theo, we've disagreed and argued many times and he's always been reasonable. For the record, if I had bothered to keep track of our debates, he's ended up being "right" far more often than I have. Yep, I've been wrong, quite often, and he's been kind enough to drop-kick me in a better direction. He's a friend and I've learned a lot from him over the years. Your misconception comes from people showing up on the OpenBSD mailing lists with a prideful hostile attitude intending to prove how much they know, when in fact, they haven't done their homework correctly or completely. Things often go sideways in a hurry if people aren't willing to look at their own opinions critically and do the additional work to see the other sides. Of course, if you walk into someone else's home and shit on their couch, you get what you deserve. There are edgy debates between developers, particularly in code reviews and proposed patches, but the reason for them is simple; everyone wants to get to the "best" and "most correct" answer. In other words the goal is the same, but the opinions vary. Being friends with the person/people on the other side of a pointed debate is important, particularly across (human) language barriers. Jake Meuser recently wrote about this on undeadly.org and I can't express it any better than he has: http://www.undeadly.org/cgi?action=article&sid=20101206081625 http://www.undeadly.org/cgi?action=article&sid=201012060... It's a worthy read.