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I'll go further: it's very common for abusive people to intentionally misappropriate the vocabulary of people they abuse. This ranges from "telling me to clean

I'll go further: it's very common for abusive people to intentionally misappropriate the vocabulary of people they abuse. This ranges from "telling me to clean up after myself is a microagression" to "we're going to name our fascist party socialist LOL." Someone's waving their power around, plain and simple. EDIT: also, this thread is going to be baaaaaad.

ridaj 7y ago
> This ranges from "telling me to clean up after myself is a microagression" to "we're going to name our fascist party socialist LOL." FAKE NEWS!
asveikau 7y ago
Perhaps, but I think sometimes we are very eager to label people as abusive or toxic as a shortcut to understanding them. So I would avoid being too casual with permanently categorizing behavior of abusers. I have also seen mental illness lead to behaviors that one could call abusive, gaslighting, etc. The wrong kind of label doesn't get those people where they need to be.