Maybe we should just change the default to "she". Why? -I'm a male and ambivalent about "he" being the default. But, if it's an important issue for some woman,

Maybe we should just change the default to "she". Why? -I'm a male and ambivalent about "he" being the default. But, if it's an important issue for some woman, I'm happy to oblige. -"They" doesn't work grammatically for singular nouns. -Creating a new pronoun for gender neutral situations probably wouldn't catch on.