Another way of looking at it is the "do I respect this person" approach". More often than not, someone just calling you a loser probably isn't someone you look

Another way of looking at it is the "do I respect this person" approach". More often than not, someone just calling you a loser probably isn't someone you look up to. They're a hater and weirdly enough, we often let their opinions influence us more than people we cherish.