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>implicit "trust" people and businesses have of "strangers", people and businesses they have never met before. The US is a pretty big and diverse place. Where
by dsfyu404ed 7y ago
>implicit "trust" people and businesses have of "strangers", people and businesses they have never met before.
The US is a pretty big and diverse place. Where I'm from it's expected that everyone screws everyone as hard as possible in any business transaction and if you don't do your due diligence then you consent to whatever screwing you receive.
For example you call ten plumbers and all ten of them will give you a "screw you" price then you call up your cousin who calls his in-law who's a GC who gives you a plumber's contact info and a name to drop and then you get a reasonable price that the plumber would offer when they're not trying to screw the other party. Then you use this info to negotiate the other guys down to reasonable prices. And that's just one example.
The state can generally be trusted to not take advantage of you but you still have to be careful. They'll play plenty of tricks that push the limits of plausible deniability in order to get their money.
Even retail transactions are suspect. About the only places I can trust to not rip me off 50% of the time are the big national chains.
It's not quite as bad as some other parts of the world but you can't enter into any business transaction without doing your due diligence. If you do you'll get burned pretty often.
Even in random day to day interactions with other people you don't trust people unless you know them or there's some alignment of interests that keeps them from screwing you.
And no, I don't come from some "backwards" rural area. I'm speaking about a relatively well off part of the northeast.
- reneherse 7y agoI grew up in Connecticut, and as I was reading this I had a feeling you were describing the Northeast! I've lived and done business in New England, N. California, the Midwest and Southeast, and the attitude you described is widespread. (Though by no means practiced by everyone.) The Southeast in fact has been the worst IME, because underhanded practices come along with a big helping of Southern "niceness", and often a lower level of competence.
- saalweachter 7y agoThe haggling/list-price distinction is also a headache, because it varies both regionally and by both business-vertical and individual.
- go_ruby 7y agoIn that case you probably want to just go with the plumber your inlaw recommended. Would kind of be awkward to explain that you wasted their recommended plumbers time only to save a few bucks with some rando from the white pages.