In a pure practical sense, I look at it like 70/30 good/bad. Overall its better but it does come at a cost. Main pain points are loss of life freedom and the co

In a pure practical sense, I look at it like 70/30 good/bad. Overall its better but it does come at a cost. Main pain points are loss of life freedom and the cost. There's also something very wholesome and fulfilling that is the je ne sais quoi about it. We have 7 and 10 yo but if were younger would have gone for more. That said, I havent hit teens yet...