It appears there is a significant number of people on hn who strongly disagree that having kids is good, and downvote all comments suggesting that. But if there

It appears there is a significant number of people on hn who strongly disagree that having kids is good, and downvote all comments suggesting that. But if there is a purpose at all then the best strategy to find it is increasing the future possibilities https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20242250 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=20242250 and the two points you mention is exactly what is needed for that.