no offense, but the idea that a 200-300 person party could even be considered a "humble" wedding is part of the problem. if I invited my entire family, my close

no offense, but the idea that a 200-300 person party could even be considered a "humble" wedding is part of the problem. if I invited my entire family, my closest friends, and their plus ones, that's forty people (and a quarter of them are underage, so no alcohol). double that (assuming my spouse's friends don't overlap with mine) and you have eighty, which is already a lot of people for a party where food and drink are both provided. how do you even come up with 300 people who are genuinely enthusiastic about attending?