> People get pissed/annoyed about code/architecture because they care > ... Yeah, you don't like that hushed solution 'cause you care" was one of the nicest th

> People get pissed/annoyed about code/architecture because they care > ... Yeah, you don't like that hushed solution 'cause you care" was one of the nicest things someone told about myself. This is very similar to a foundation that we repeat at work. Everyone is trying to make things better, we might not agree on the how, but we must agree on the intent. When you assume good intent, conversations go much, much better. It can be a great way to frame disagreements. "We are disagreeing here because we care."