I completely understand and almost always share your reaction. Socratic CAN be done well - The novel Starship Troopers is actually like that...the arguments ma

I completely understand and almost always share your reaction. Socratic CAN be done well - The novel Starship Troopers is actually like that...the arguments may not be your first pick, but you consider them all reasonable, and then you discover you're supporting fascism! It requires you to back up and find where you made a false connection. Unfortunately, the most common usage is at best ineffective, for as you say, they will dictate some logical jump I don't agree with, so when they disprove it in favor of their point I remain unconvinced as my own argument hasn't been addressed at all. At worst, it's infuriating.