I'm realizing I'm apparently a fan of decoupling parenting... In my case I'm happy to help if asked politely (and if it's not being abused). That's separate fr

I'm realizing I'm apparently a fan of decoupling parenting... In my case I'm happy to help if asked politely (and if it's not being abused). That's separate from the rest of the process though, and applies regardless of how we got to the cleaning up in the first place.