I always find this paradox as interesting as sad. It's crab mentality [1] and you're right, it's extremely sad. We see it absolutely everywhere. So many people

I always find this paradox as interesting as sad. It's crab mentality [1] and you're right, it's extremely sad. We see it absolutely everywhere. So many people who (for example) hate the rich rather than loving the poor. [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality