> it used to be that if you didn’t have anything positive to say you’d just shut up and move on While that's an attitude I've learned to follow ("If you'd don'

> it used to be that if you didn’t have anything positive to say you’d just shut up and move on While that's an attitude I've learned to follow ("If you'd don't have anything nice to say, don't say it." as my maw would put it) I'm not sure it's actually that healthy. It shuts down all possibility of (negative) criticism for fear of causing offense, or bad feeling.