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If I had followed the advice I'd have to give my past self to avoid unnecessary pain and hardship, I wouldn't be where I am today, and I wouldn't have met my wi
by kstenerud 7y ago
If I had followed the advice I'd have to give my past self to avoid unnecessary pain and hardship, I wouldn't be where I am today, and I wouldn't have met my wife.
I'll take all the pain and suffering it took to get to where I am. It made me who I am, and affected who I met, and who I kept, and how strong my relationships are.
I wouldn't trade that for anything.
- aitchnyu 7y agoThat's why I would tell myself to umm... lean in. I believed my love should be constantly high and less of a fight. I never believed relationships can survive lows. I thought study and programming should be effortless, so I was hard on myself when I was not smooth like an olympic gymnast. I could have excercised harder through some aches, hangovers, insomnia etc.