> It's kinda crazy. We say this - but I suspect we are a minority. I'm not sure I agree there. For example, I've heard stories where parents don't really want

> It's kinda crazy. We say this - but I suspect we are a minority. I'm not sure I agree there. For example, I've heard stories where parents don't really want their children to use Instagram... however, they also don't want their kids to be excluded. If all other kids are on Instagram, the parents don't want their child to be excluded. It's kind of a trap if all parents feel this way. I've heard stories of those parents getting together and collectively agreeing that they will all simultaneously ban their children from using Instagram so that no one feels excluded. So in your example of "we"... it could be that "we" all feel this way, but we need to raise our voices together instead of as individuals.