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This story kinda reminded me about Mark Rife: > “Last Thursday, a guy I went to college with, Mark Rife, committed suicide. As I understand the story, three ye
by markdown 7y ago
This story kinda reminded me about Mark Rife:
> “Last Thursday, a guy I went to college with, Mark Rife, committed suicide. As I understand the story, three years ago his wife Sarah died due to complications from a fall off a 75 foot waterfall. She fell; he dove in after her. Against all odds, they thought she had recovered. Life had returned to some degree of normal; but then six months later, she died in her sleep. Mark was devastated.
> In a video he left behind, Mark describes leaving Sarah’s funeral, driving who knows where and simply wanting to die — but he remembered the time they watched the film Juliet and Her Romeo, a film he loved, and he remembered Sarah’s question: “Do you think Romeo would have still killed himself if he’d waited 1,000 days?”
> So, Mark went on a 1,000 day odyssey, with funds from Sarah’s life insurance policy, to give him time to see if his choice would still be the same. Would he still want to kill himself? Mark traveled, explored, met knew people. He says he “followed every impulse.” Mark had been a pastor in Hawaii, and he left his life behind.”
> Long story short, after 1000 days of living and exploring 22 countries around the world, Mark Rife decided that he DID want to kill himself. He didn’t want to live in a world without Sarah and he was out.
http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/the-1000-days-of-mark http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/the-1000-days-of-mark
Mark blogged every step of his 1000 days of travelling and seeking happiness. Tumblr deleted his blog the day he killed himself. To their credit, Vimeo left his video up https://vimeo.com/27856790 https://vimeo.com/27856790
- chris_wot 7y agoIs there an archive somewhere?
- markdown 7y agoNope. IIRC it was like a private diary and he only published it at the end just before he ended his life, so there wasn't time for it to get archived or cached before Tumblr deleted it.
- hackerbabz 7y agoTravel is not therapeutic or enjoyable to all or even most people. It can be very depressing and lonely. I wonder if his decision would have been the same had he stayed in his home community with others who loved him.
- bubblewrap 7y agoIf he was a pastor, he probably believed in an afterlife, hoping to be together with Sarah again? I also remember the story of a guy killing his family after a divorce, hoping to be together with his children again in the afterlife. Lies can kill...
- markdown 7y ago> If he was a pastor, he probably believed in an afterlife, hoping to be together with Sarah again? Only if he thought she was in hell. A pastor would know that you can't commit suicide and enter heaven.
- bubblewrap 7y agoI think not even all strains of Christianity have the concept of hell? Not sure, though. Also, doesn't god always forgive in the end? And overall, religion doesn't seem 100% logical anyway.
- garmega 7y agoThat's not biblical. Some Christians believe that, but it's not anywhere in the Bible. In fact Samson committed suicide and mass killing in his final act and Hebrews 11 tells us he is one of those in heaven.