Whining and complaining about your responsibilities after courts ruled against you isn't really mature either. Distributing the burden of child raising on both

Whining and complaining about your responsibilities after courts ruled against you isn't really mature either. Distributing the burden of child raising on both parents, and not just the mother, is an important part in actual gender equality. Children are generally granted more protections. Not sure how to complain about that without sounding weak and immature.