Sure, but there's a lot of unhealthy-ness other places as well. If you're not seeing a lot of peace, patience, kindness, or self-control, stay away. But this

Sure, but there's a lot of unhealthy-ness other places as well. If you're not seeing a lot of peace, patience, kindness, or self-control, stay away. But this comment, and its siblings, need to be careful about painting with too broad a brush. Religious communities are diverse. Again, there are billions of folks that are into church or weekly worship of some sort... there are too many of them for the entire category of activity to be inherently weird.