You know, I think about how I might go about doing anything remotely like this, and I realize the biggest challenge would to get my wife on exactly the same pag

You know, I think about how I might go about doing anything remotely like this, and I realize the biggest challenge would to get my wife on exactly the same page as me. We're not aligned at this level on anything! It makes me think this was the product of a solo mind, one individual decided to be this rigid, and the other individual went along with it. I can't see any other way this could possibly happen/work.