You could benefit by reading one or more of a few books: How to Win Friends and Influence People, How to Talk to Anyone, and Meta Talk. Beyond that, start by t

You could benefit by reading one or more of a few books: How to Win Friends and Influence People, How to Talk to Anyone, and Meta Talk. Beyond that, start by taking notice of someone's clothing, hair, or other notable characteristics/behaviors. Look for anything that stands out to you, and pay them a polite comment about how you noticed it. People tend to enjoy talking about things that interest them, especially things they choose to carry/wear. And people love hearing their own name, so use it when you address them if you can. Sports and movies are two topics you can catch up and keep up on that will give you lots to engage with people over. Asking about family is a common topic, and those family oriented types will love you for reminding them and inquiring about their loved ones. As a general rule, listen 80% and speak 20%. People in general like to hear themselves talk, and if you give them the opportunity, they will think you're a better conversationalist, when it's really them doing 80% of it. When someone says something, see if you can't resonate with what they're saying and reflecting it against your own experience.