MY general approach (which I've refined over a time) is to have a set of standard questions (where you work, what you do, comments on obvious stuff like dressin

MY general approach (which I've refined over a time) is to have a set of standard questions (where you work, what you do, comments on obvious stuff like dressing style or jewellery, pen etc.) and to open with one of these. That starts the conversation. I've also learnt to strop cringing when I say things like "Hi so and so, my name is Noufal and I [insert how you know or are interested in the person]. Just wanted to say hello and connect." There are several things that can be used to keep this kind of thing afloat. Recent news, entertainment (movies, music) etc. Usually, one of these things leads into a conversation where I can find a common interest (movies, hobby etc.) and that gives you some kind of rapport. Then you'll feel more comfortable and can talk smoothly. This might sound weird or awkward but it gets better with practice till it becomes second nature. My main problem is these days is to start. I still have a few of a hello being rejected or being brushed aside and that gives me pause when I want to introduce myself to someone. That's how I behave on auto pilot so I have to force myself to say hello. That only happens if I'm energetic and feeling good so I try to make sure that I'm that way before getting into a situation where I need this.