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This is really a powerful and understudied phenom that's very well exemplified in a very simple form of advice I once read concerning making decisions, self ass
by sonnyblarney 7y ago
This is really a powerful and understudied phenom that's very well exemplified in a very simple form of advice I once read concerning making decisions, self assessment:
Instead of thinking "what should I do in the situation?", consider "what advice would I give myself in this situation?"
It's almost a trivial differentiation, and yet, if one applies this concept immediately for any reason big or small, one will be astonished at how the answers are different. It's really amazing.
It's hard to put data behind it, but if you just try it, I suggest you'll probably see a difference as well. I can't think of any other psychological technique which yields 'results' (at least in terms of having different ideas given framing) for basically zero effort or practice. It's not even a 'learned skill', it's just framing. It's amazing.
I suggest more intellectual people, who might be more deep in their own thoughts, might make even better use of this than more gregarious 'in the moment' people who's attention is in the 'here and now'.
- fma 7y agoOften times when faced with a tough decision, I pretend I have a friend in the exact same situation and I think about what advice I without give them. It would actually take the form of a conversation and is quite productive.
- sonnyblarney 7y agoYes, that's it. So simple, so powerful.