I've read a couple dozen self-help books over the last few years. This one changed my mindset more deeply than any other: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/2

I've read a couple dozen self-help books over the last few years. This one changed my mindset more deeply than any other: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25692561-how-to-be-an-imperfectionist https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25692561-how-to-be-an-im... I went from being "socially awkward, and I feel awkward about it" to "socially awkward, but that's OK" largely because of this book.