1.) Be attractive. 2.) Don't be unattractive. Seriously, find a community and dive in. Doesn't matter if it's virtual or facilitates IRL meetups. Reddit is al

1.) Be attractive. 2.) Don't be unattractive. Seriously, find a community and dive in. Doesn't matter if it's virtual or facilitates IRL meetups. Reddit is always a good place to start. Lots of those subs have Discord servers for more real time communication. You can even start with a broader, unrelated community like a regional or city-based tech community, and then ask around for people who share similar hobbies.