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For me, proper perspective has been the best help there. You seem qualified enough to be able to find other work if the worst happens, and the worst is unlikely

by thrav 7y ago

For me, proper perspective has been the best help there. You seem qualified enough to be able to find other work if the worst happens, and the worst is unlikely to happen. This doesn’t mean be lazy. It means relax, and you’ll probably find that you do better work that way. Unless someone’s life is directly on the line (maybe it is and I’m wrong), the stakes being high is often just a story we’re telling ourselves.

cableshaft 7y ago
Never worked for a failing startup, huh? Okay sure, you might be able to find a job after it, but when you are trying to keep it going and every decision you make could make or break the company, it's hard not to feel the stress, especially if you really enjoy what you're doing. Also being one of four people that helped a parent company lose a couple million dollars doesn't feel great either. Or work for a large company where if you screw up it could result in all of your major clients terminating their contracts and the parent corporation deciding to close an entire department resulting in hundreds of people losing their jobs. That's the situation I'm in right now. Thankfully I'm not TOO high on that totem pole that I feel all the stress in the world, and we're probably only delaying the inevitable in the long run, but it is very difficult to relax.
- perfmode 7y ago
  These all sound like situations that aren’t worth the fuss.
  - threatofrain 7y ago
    If the person can identify the fuss, then they can ask for compensation and see if they think it’s worth the fuss. In business everything is always at the stress level of results or nothing, but one doesn’t have to be close to the business if you don’t like the stress.
    - perfmode 7y ago
      You make it sound as though stress is inherent, versus a product of unsavoriness.
- alaskamiller 7y ago
  Never worked for the military, huh? Okay sure, you might get fired for a wrong or dumb decision, but you can still live and be fine. In the military where if you screw up it could result in all of your buddies dying. That was my situation when I was 18. Listen, it's going to be alright. Breathe. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast. It's going to be okay.
- m0zg 7y ago
  Are you the owner/founder? If not, why are you even stressing about the startup's demise?

by thrav 7y ago

cableshaft 7y ago

Never worked for a failing startup, huh? Okay sure, you might be able to find a job after it, but when you are trying to keep it going and every decision you make could make or break the company, it's hard not to feel the stress, especially if you really enjoy what you're doing. Also being one of four people that helped a parent company lose a couple million dollars doesn't feel great either. Or work for a large company where if you screw up it could result in all of your major clients terminating their contracts and the parent corporation deciding to close an entire department resulting in hundreds of people losing their jobs. That's the situation I'm in right now. Thankfully I'm not TOO high on that totem pole that I feel all the stress in the world, and we're probably only delaying the inevitable in the long run, but it is very difficult to relax.

perfmode 7y ago
These all sound like situations that aren’t worth the fuss.
- threatofrain 7y ago
  If the person can identify the fuss, then they can ask for compensation and see if they think it’s worth the fuss. In business everything is always at the stress level of results or nothing, but one doesn’t have to be close to the business if you don’t like the stress.
  - perfmode 7y ago
    You make it sound as though stress is inherent, versus a product of unsavoriness.
alaskamiller 7y ago
Never worked for the military, huh? Okay sure, you might get fired for a wrong or dumb decision, but you can still live and be fine. In the military where if you screw up it could result in all of your buddies dying. That was my situation when I was 18. Listen, it's going to be alright. Breathe. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast. It's going to be okay.
m0zg 7y ago
Are you the owner/founder? If not, why are you even stressing about the startup's demise?