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I thought about writing a blog post once because I think I've finally found the key insight to being a successful engineer. Then I realized it isn't long enough
by kevinpet 16y ago
I thought about writing a blog post once because I think I've finally found the key insight to being a successful engineer. Then I realized it isn't long enough for a blog post.
Simple rule: if you're the smartest person in the room, go look for a room with smarter people in it.
- InfinityX0 16y agoThe only problem: I think we all believe we're the smartest person in the room, or at very least inflate our own "intelligence" some modicum amount, every time, so that someone who is actually 20 or so % smarter than us we actually see ourselves as slightly superior to. So, it's hard to make this judgment call, or, if we did, we'd be traveling a damn lot.
- ronnier 16y agoI always feel the dumbest or close to it (honestly). At my new gig I'll really feel bad :/
- jodrellblank 16y agoYou don't have to conflate feeling like the dumbest with feeling bad.
- PakG1 16y agoI think that's only true for people who've never been humbled. If you've been humbled, you are more easily able to question yourself and recognize if you're not the smartest in the room. At least, that's the way it worked for me. :)
- wccrawford 16y agoI don't think someone needs to 'be humbled' to get it. They just need to be humble. It -is- possible to learn lessons without having your nose ground in it. Also, there's a difference between thinking you're smartest and knowing it. Mostly in attitude.
- danenania 16y agoI think it mostly has to do with whether someone's ego is all wrapped up in his or her intelligence, which is pretty common for people of above average intelligence. If it is, judgment of relative intelligences will probably be clouded, at least as it relates to the person, since evidence that others are intellectually superior in a particular area will often be treated as a threat to the person's identity and ignored or rejected, often subconsciously. If the person has a strong feeling of self worth that is independent of intelligence, they won't care very much, and so can be more objective about whether they're the smartest person in a room, regardless of if they are or aren't. Put another way, there will undoubtedly be situations for a very high percentage of human beings where they happen to be the smartest person in the room. Being able to recognize this doesn't necessarily indicate arrogance or an inflated perception of one's intelligence. Of course this issue is also obscured by the entirely vague and amorphous nature of the very concept of intelligence. There likely exist countless 'mentally retarded' people who have much higher emotional intelligence than a typical MIT genius, and are thereby probably better equipped for a happy, successful, and socially beneficial life.
- chrisbroadfoot 16y agoI think you need to find smarter people, then. I'm constantly amazed (in a good way) by the people I work and socialise with.
- mkramlich 16y agowhenever I'm alone in a room I always think I'm the smartest guy in the room.
- angrycoder 16y agoMy simple rule: find the guy who thinks he is the smartest person in the room and stay the hell away from him.
- khafra 16y agoSometimes he's right, though; and if you can swallow your distaste you can learn quite a bit. Fortunately, it's easy to tell if a vain person's judgement of his own intelligence is correct if you're smarter than he is.
- Helianthus16 16y agoOptimization: don't find the guy who thinks he is the smartest person in the room.
- Hexstream 16y agoWhat if he actually is the smartest person in the room? Maybe even by far? On the other hand, if you have that kind of attitude it will probably be mutually beneficial if you stay the hell away from him so it's a good strategy.
- jfb 16y agoVery well stated; and I agree 100%.