From zero to one child the change in regular life is astounding. You become a parent and in the process you lost a lot of your free time and lose all spontaneit

From zero to one child the change in regular life is astounding. You become a parent and in the process you lost a lot of your free time and lose all spontaneity from your life. From one to two children you will notice that you had some free time left with one but now you really _really_ don't have any more. No more evening movies or hour long coffees with wife. You wonder what childrenless people even do with the ultra metric shitton of time they have as you cannot imagine anymore. You simply don't have enough time for two kids and you have to learn to manage and optimize what you have to do the best you can. From two to three children... nothing really changes anymore! You won't get more responsibilites as you already have them and no less time as you already don't have any :)