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Is this what life is really like for most people? Are you all riding a firehose of incoming texts that need attention? Looking over the Messages app on my iPho
by maxaf 7y ago
Is this what life is really like for most people? Are you all riding a firehose of incoming texts that need attention?
Looking over the Messages app on my iPhone, it’s basically just:
* stuff from my wife
* iMessage group chat with my wife and daughter
* “your cell phone bill is ready to view”
* one friend who always has hilarious memes on tap
* “here’s your temporary password for some random WiFi network”
* “your dumplings order is ready to be picked up!”
* “you’re eligible for a reward at the crepe place!”
* political spam that was addressed to someone else
* “it’s time to schedule your next dental appointment!”
* “your Uber code is ...”
* “reminder: your child’s annual physical is coming up on ...”
* “you’ve logged into your Aeroflot account from ...”
I’ve scrolled as far back as January while typing out this comment. Note that I don’t delete texts for the same reason I don’t delete email: “what if I need to go back to it later?” is commonly a guiding principle for me.
There’s no barrage of texts from anyone who isn’t an automated system already, and those can certainly wait. My email looks quite similar, and has become so full of automatons that I only open my inbox rarely in order to find a specific message, such as an email address verification ping.
- isostatic 7y agoI get two or three texts or whatsapp a day. Usually "what time will you be back" or "quick half in the pub?", or occasional 2FA texts. But I don't have emails polling and I don't have slack, twitter or facebook notifications on my phone (I have slack on my desktop on private messages and @s) DND turns on automatically at 9pm and goes off at 10am (my schedule is usually 7 or 8 hours between 8am and 9pm, I have a couple of hours off in the day, sometimes start late, sometimes finish earlier). I have it set up that certain people (mainly wife) bypass dnd, and if you phone back a second time in 3 minutes it bypasses. Even then I tend to have the phone on vibrate only, and only for calls. If it's important people will call.