> my wife and I One of you stay home and raise your kids; that's rather the point of getting married. > With the upcoming summer, if we still lived in SF, we'

> my wife and I One of you stay home and raise your kids; that's rather the point of getting married. > With the upcoming summer, if we still lived in SF, we'd have four children in daycare. $6,400/mo. If paying other people to raise your kids is even on the table, you're doing it wrong.