I think it's a very positive sign that they're interested enough in you to make a custom package, and try to make things work. Get the options thing in writing

I think it's a very positive sign that they're interested enough in you to make a custom package, and try to make things work. Get the options thing in writing, but otherwise, if you like the job, take it. Heck, it may even get you closer to some of the other VC firm members, which is never a bad thing.