I am not sure why this is downvoted - but I second this opinion. > I want to free myself from that so that I can focus on building my own life, get into a rela

I am not sure why this is downvoted - but I second this opinion. > I want to free myself from that so that I can focus on building my own life, get into a relationship and starting a family. Leetcoding is not preventing OP from doing any of that. This sounds like just an excuse for not doing the hard work. It really sounds like OP doesn't enjoy coding.