It kind of made me think and question why I had such attachment issues. Why the same pattern I saw in how I had to be ”interested” to give something or someone

It kind of made me think and question why I had such attachment issues. Why the same pattern I saw in how I had to be ”interested” to give something or someone my attention repeated over and over. I’ve had many relationships over the years with a specific pattern: I lose interest in about a year. One total burn-out after another. Extreme interest followed by absolutely nothing. There’s a follow up book I can’t find in English called (my translation): ”The dark secret”, that treats what they call ”deorganized attachement” This one’s actually more relevant for me personally as my youth and upbringing was... “interesting” and in several ways traumatic. On the topic of books: “Healing ADD” was really useful for my partner: https://www.bookdepository.com/Healing-Add-Daniel-Amen/9780425269978 https://www.bookdepository.com/Healing-Add-Daniel-Amen/97804...