If one chooses a career that requires travel or is in a foreign country altogether while your family & life long friends are at home - maybe the initial decisio

If one chooses a career that requires travel or is in a foreign country altogether while your family & life long friends are at home - maybe the initial decision to accept the job is to blame and not the job or the company? In my experience finding close friends later in life is more difficult compared to childhood, teenage and college years.