Also along these lines I find its easier to connect with people when you become a "regular". I have made friends at the gym with people who would normally be ou

Also along these lines I find its easier to connect with people when you become a "regular". I have made friends at the gym with people who would normally be outside my social circle. I have a neighborhood bar/restaurant I go to at least once a week and make sure to remember people's names who work there and tip well. They remember you and will become friends if you want that. Also, if your dating and bring someone to a restaurant where they all know you and treat you well, it shows good social status!