I would echo similar experiences. Healthcare is extremely bureaucratic, and there is an art to navigating it. While I have more than a sample size of one throug

I would echo similar experiences. Healthcare is extremely bureaucratic, and there is an art to navigating it. While I have more than a sample size of one throughout my extended family, I can share my own experience when I had appendicitis right before my sister's wedding in my early 20's. My initial action after I started having symptoms was to go to the ER. I waited five hours in the waiting room, and then decided to go home due to my pain and fever condition being intolerable. I then learned that I could have my primary care doctor call the ER to fast pass me from having to wait in feverish pain. Then, once my diagnosis was official, the resident on call recommended that I elect him to perform the surgery overnight. Since it was during my sister's wedding, my parents were able to come by after the rehearsal dinner, and insist that I wait until the morning for the doctor to perform the surgery. The doctor, who had a national reputation, came in at 6 AM, and with the confidence of Steph Curry lining up for a three point shot, changed the operating procedure due to specific circumstances. As a naive 20 year old, I would have just elected to do what the resident was recommending, and it probably would have been ok. Yet, I think I ended up better off with having family present, pressing back on the recommendation, and waiting for the doctor to arrive.