As a middle-aged foreigner who moved to a southern city almost 5 years ago, this is spot on. I started talking to ladies on dating sites and some had only been

As a middle-aged foreigner who moved to a southern city almost 5 years ago, this is spot on. I started talking to ladies on dating sites and some had only been divorced 6-12 months. Immediately they wanted to know the house, car, bank account situation. I wasn't even sure if my new business would succeed or if I would stay. Their way is not about love, it's pragmatism. No thanks.