That is the secret ingredient to being a good monarch: be absolutely boring and try to not upset anyone. The system in my country is that until you take the th

That is the secret ingredient to being a good monarch: be absolutely boring and try to not upset anyone. The system in my country is that until you take the throne you get a relatively normal life. Hell doesn't start until you're at least 40. The Royal family has 400 years of experience so they're used to it. Relatively few ran away or killed themselves. Although a few did go nuts. They know it has to be done.