I've always felt that it's good to let people know if you have a problem BEFORE ditching them. If they don't change, then I can leave with a clean conscience.

I've always felt that it's good to let people know if you have a problem BEFORE ditching them. If they don't change, then I can leave with a clean conscience. Sometimes they decide to change, sometimes they don't. When they don't, sometimes they change after I leave, sometimes they don't. This is the normal back-and-forth between parties that won't always agree. I don't really see a reason to be upset at communication and get angry about "appeasement".