I think your beef is with those partnering sites and Facebook, not Facebook alone. If every shop on your street had a security camera, and all cameras were run

I think your beef is with those partnering sites and Facebook, not Facebook alone. If every shop on your street had a security camera, and all cameras were run by a single company, the fact that you explicitly don’t want to be recorded would be much more about the shops on your street, and much less about the company selling security cameras. (Or, in the case of Facebook, perhaps paying the shopowners to install security cameras?)