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If it's not a "Hell yes!", it's a "No".

• monk_e_boy 7y ago
  That's good. I realised things were not good between me and my SO one day at the beach. I was there alone, kitesurfing. When I got out of the sea I met a guy and we chatted for a while, shooting the shit, having a laugh, poking fun at each others home made hydrofoil kiteboards. Then his wife pulled up in her car and ran down the beach to kiss him. All excited. She forgot to close her car door. My SO doesn't look at me like that. I think for my SO it isn't 'hell yes' I think she settled for 'this will do'
  • majos 7y ago
    That guy may have been looking at your partner thinking "how nice, their partner remembers to close the car door. Me, I gotta check that the burner's actually off every time my wife makes breakfast. It's killing me!" I of course don't know any of the context in your relationship, but love comes in many forms. I don't think we should adhere to the standard set by what may be naturally extroverted and demonstrative people.
• kaybe 7y ago
  So what do you do if you only get lukewarm 'yes'? Wait forever?
  • hnzix 7y ago
    Find your "Hell Yes". Settling for lukewarm is almost always a bad choice.