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Amazing food for thought! Thank you for the links

• IgorPartola 7y ago
  Of course. It’s amazing to me that we often look for already existing solutions to most of our problem in life and work, except when it comes to relationships. Most times others have already experienced what we are struggling with and have found good ways of making it work. This is why I nerd out about this stuff so much: there is a whole world of custom made relationships out there and some have books, studies, opinion pieces, etc.
  • kodz4 7y ago
    Read some Esther Perel.
    • IgorPartola 7y ago
      I have. Her stuff is pretty great, though I found Mating in Captivity a bit lacking on solutions to some of the cases she presented and also lacking a sort of overarching theory. But that’s just because how my brain operates: show a theory, then show examples of it being applied. Overall I found it super helpful to dissect certain types of relationships I’ve had and how to make existing ones a lot healthier.