If you are busy, it is because you are both working hard and also trying to take advantage of all life has to offer (family, friends, vacations, fine dining).

If you are busy, it is because you are both working hard and also trying to take advantage of all life has to offer (family, friends, vacations, fine dining). If you are NOT busy then it means you AREN'T trying to experience all those things to the fullest. Not only that, you might be DENYING those things to your spouse and children, with your LAZINESS. So, you better look busy.