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Personally I find that I can use certain sad music to push through vague mopey depression into a state where I can do something about it. If I just sit there b
by egypturnash 8y ago
Personally I find that I can use certain sad music to push through vague mopey depression into a state where I can do something about it.
If I just sit there being sad and useless I’m gonna start feeling sad about how long I’ve been sitting there moping and it’s a horrible downward spiral.
If I lay there on the floor in the dark with headphones on listening to a double album full of exquisitely constructed instrumental crystals of particular flavors of sadness then I am likely to actually start crying and find some release from the endless circles around the mental drain. Or I might also start laughing at what a caricature of an emotion I’m being by doing this - and then the sadness is banished in another way.
Aphex Twin’s “Selected Ambient Works, Volume 2” is my go-to album for this. That or Nine Inch Nails if I want to be more angry. Which probably tells you a lot about my age.
- mediaman 8y agoGetting sad enough to cry is a good technique, because tears from strong emotion have been found to carry stress hormones with them out of the body. Crying also releases endorphins which can help you recover from a feeling of sadness. So yes, it's pretty reasonable to feel mopey but unable to extricate yourself until and unless you can push yourself far enough to cry, at which your body's own biology lifts you out of feeling mopey.