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> drink the entire thing while doing the rest of my shopping, and pay for the empty bottle when I leave I have a friend that does the same thing and it just se

> drink the entire thing while doing the rest of my shopping, and pay for the empty bottle when I leave I have a friend that does the same thing and it just seems really weird to me. My groceries aren't mine until I've paid for them. And also, as a person with not always a lot of money I sometimes (very rarely, but still) find that I don't have enough money for the things I wanted to buy. What if I'd started consuming the goods, got to the till and couldn't pay? If I needed to drink first I'd buy the drink first, drink it, and then proceed with the remainder of the shopping. Anyway, people can do what they want. I'm not going to berate anyone for this. But I still think it's really weird.

drfuchs 8y ago
If you feel that “groceries aren't mine until I've paid for them,” then how do you ever eat at a restaurant?
- codetrotter 8y ago
  Hmm, touché :) I think a restaurant is different though because that is explicitly how it works (eat first then pay). To take your comparison further, what would happen if you sat down in a grocery store and started consuming hundreds of dollars worth of food and drink? I think it would raise a lot of eyebrows, and the employees would probably confront you. So there is a difference. Furthermore, in a restaurant you place an order and they serve you, and from a legal perspective (IANAL) there might be something about some sort of implicit contract that you will pay them. Whereas with a grocery store you are not allowed to remove the items from the store until you've paid for them. And I feel like consuming the items inside of the store is sort of analogous to removing them from the store.
- yuhe00 8y ago
  When I was young, I avoided restaurants because of exactly this! Always preferred cafes/fast-food places where you pay first. It just didn't make logical sense to me. I've grown out of it now obviously... :P
- Cytobit 8y ago
  I've never had unpaid-for groceries in a restaurant.
- anbop 8y ago
  Doesn’t make sense. Paying beforehand is customary at grocery stores, not at restaurants.
anbop 8y ago
I fully agree with you and recognize that a person can only become the way I am (and doesn’t necessarily) by growing up in a privileged environment where store owners are always happy to see you and your family and you have never been questioned by anyone.

drfuchs 8y ago

If you feel that “groceries aren't mine until I've paid for them,” then how do you ever eat at a restaurant?

codetrotter 8y ago
Hmm, touché :) I think a restaurant is different though because that is explicitly how it works (eat first then pay). To take your comparison further, what would happen if you sat down in a grocery store and started consuming hundreds of dollars worth of food and drink? I think it would raise a lot of eyebrows, and the employees would probably confront you. So there is a difference. Furthermore, in a restaurant you place an order and they serve you, and from a legal perspective (IANAL) there might be something about some sort of implicit contract that you will pay them. Whereas with a grocery store you are not allowed to remove the items from the store until you've paid for them. And I feel like consuming the items inside of the store is sort of analogous to removing them from the store.
yuhe00 8y ago
When I was young, I avoided restaurants because of exactly this! Always preferred cafes/fast-food places where you pay first. It just didn't make logical sense to me. I've grown out of it now obviously... :P
Cytobit 8y ago
I've never had unpaid-for groceries in a restaurant.
anbop 8y ago
Doesn’t make sense. Paying beforehand is customary at grocery stores, not at restaurants.

anbop 8y ago

I fully agree with you and recognize that a person can only become the way I am (and doesn’t necessarily) by growing up in a privileged environment where store owners are always happy to see you and your family and you have never been questioned by anyone.