This is response to a tagging comment because its not the user which puts her identity out there, but her friends, co-workers, etc, tagging her, even if she is

This is response to a tagging comment because its not the user which puts her identity out there, but her friends, co-workers, etc, tagging her, even if she is not a member of the site. You interact with facebook wether you want to participate in it or not. The only way to stop this now is if they allow you to block all pictures you're tagged in from the public (they pretty much do allow that now, except it just takes the tag off, not the actual picture). Facebook really shouldn't be waiting until they're brought up as defendants in a wrongful death/battery suit before ferreting out these last bits of stupid over sharing.