Is this a gender thing, or should we just not have benefits/health coverage held over our heads in marriages and jobs? Seems they both really cut down on mobil

Is this a gender thing, or should we just not have benefits/health coverage held over our heads in marriages and jobs? Seems they both really cut down on mobility and freewill. For marriage, I get the State's motive, the "entice people to build a family unit" idea, but that's clearly not happening anymore.