I am sorry to read this. It is sadly the default mode of 'nation building', perhaps inherently so. One thing I would like to add is please don't blame your par

I am sorry to read this. It is sadly the default mode of 'nation building', perhaps inherently so. One thing I would like to add is please don't blame your parents. No doubt they experienced the sort of systemic prejudice from the Norwegian state, and wanted to spare you that.